Electro magnetism is great 'n' all and we know its an observable phenomena in the classic scientific sense. However if life and human behavior was that clear cut as an absolute then we'd have a lot of reason to discriminate against homosexuals just to throw in a flippant example. I might point out that I don't really have any issue with homosexuals as long as its not being imposed on me against my will. Each to their own as it were. Obviously applying such a dynamic as a means of arguing the dynamic of human behavior and the things that we are supposed to experience in some sort of generic capacity would be just stupid. Try telling folk who have been burnt by certain situations such as in cases of abuse for example. But then again I guess stupid is relative to your standing on the matter.